Zezwolenie na zdalne połączenie do mysql-a

Witam. Jak można zezwolić na połączenie zdalne z mysql? Chciałem zrobić z poradnikami na forum ale plik my.conf ma taką zawartość:
# # The MySQL database server configuration file. # # You can copy this to one of: # - "/etc/mysql/my.cnf" to set global options, # - "~/.my.cnf" to set user-specific options. **# ** # One can use all long options that the program supports. # Run program with --help to get a list of available options and with # --print-defaults to see which it would actually understand and use. # # For explanations see # http://dev.mysql.com/doc/mysql/en/server-system-variables.html

# # * IMPORTANT: Additional settings that can override those from this file! # The files must end with '.cnf', otherwise they'll be ignored. #

!includedir /etc/mysql/conf.d/ !includedir /etc/mysql/mysql.conf.d/